Read this first.
Wow, just...wow. The responses are really something! Like, I wish I read it sooner. I always love to talk about relationship, either my friends told me about their love stories or I'm in that relationship myself. From what I've just read (and my experiences also), do not ever think your crush is giving you mixed signals 'cause maybe they don't mean to give you signals at all. Expectations crash you.
Also, if you have told your crush that you have feelings for him/her beyond friendship and they reject you, maybe you'll need to go away from them for a while. Don't give him/her a chance to string you! Heartbroken needs time to heal. Ofc, you can't move on if he/she still in your closest circles. Yes, yes, it's hard and painful, I know. All rejection is painful even if it's being told in a very kind way.
And if you are the one who is being told by somebody that they love you, please do not string their feeling. If you do not love them, then take a distance from them. It'll hurt their feeling for sure but it's better than you keep being around them. Give them time to move on. Don't ever bring up the convo again.
Maybe your friendship wouldn't be the same as before, but whatever, at least you have the guts to tell them about your feeling, right? That's better than you have to hide your jealousy everytime he/she tells you about their new crushes or whenever he/she go with some other girls/boys (Ah yes, we're talking about friendzone here!) Don't suffer yoursef.
You deserve someone who will love you back. Who will give you the same attention you gave 'em. Who will pursue you the way you pursue them. You will find the right one, I promise. Maybe it's not him or her and that's okay. Better one will come along. It's just a matter of time. :)
Luv,
Nadia Almira Sagitta
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